Just Another Day in Paradise

Happy New Year! 2012!!

2012-01-09T09:33:00.001+09:00

This year will have BIG changes my friends! BIG CHANGES.

I don't know what, when, or how but there will be.

I will make certain changes, things will come to and end, and things will grow!

In 6 months.... 6 FREAKING MONTHS I will hold a bachelors degree in my HANDS!

Wow! Who knew right!?

Next big thing will be a VISIT HOME! Yup, you read that right- a little over two years later I'm coming home to visit! "NO" is pretty much not an acceptable answer to me anymore.

I want, no I NEED my family to meet my boys and see Aaliyah. Jay's family will too! :)

Another BIG thing is going to be my photography.

Since I'm finishing school I will have tons more time to work on it!

I have started with a new blog, a challenge and all my attention focused on it!

Come follow me, subscribe by email or check back often to watch me learn and grow!

I'm super excited!

www.candacecastorphotography.com

Hope your New Year brings new and exciting changes too!

Churaumi Aquarium

2011-12-29T23:45:00.038+09:00

We finally went to the Aquarium! Its usually something people go to relatively quickly after arriving on Okinawa. However, we just never went and then I was pregnant and then the boys were in the NICU...
But, finally! We went, Aaliyah was still on winter break from school but Jay had to return to work ): so we went with a friend and her baby since her hubby was TDY. I kept asking Aaliyah if she had any fun and she said "no". I didnt believe her cause I really think she did! We loved the dolphins!! It was a very long ALL DAY adventure and will definatly go back since there is so much to do! Since I took so many photos.. seriously! I made them into a collage so its easier to view I guess or rather so your not scrolling down forever!

We loved the dolphin show that featured a whale! We recorded most of it.

Aaliyah touched all sorts of different star fish!

Aaliyah loved the BIG tank, we ate ice cream staring at it!

I bet grandpa Dee wishes he had a fish tank that big! (But didnt have to clean it!)

Dont forget to stop by my photography blog and follow me on my photography journey!!

Santa Pictures!

2011-12-14T22:11:00.001+09:00

Ah man, its amazing how much the boys and Aaliyah have grown in a year! Layne and Zane and the biggest shit heads ever! They are into EVERYTHING, walking, talking (sort of), and put everything in their mouth! Aaliyah is reading, doing great in kindergarten, and looks like a big girl- which I dont like very much! Hear are their last years and this years Santa pictures to compare!

Layne, Santa, Zane, Aaliyah 2010

Layne, Santa, Zane, Aaliyah 2011

Family Pictures!

2011-12-11T17:23:00.000+09:00

Ive talked about the {amazing} photographer that I have the pleasure of assisting on her shoots as well as the ability to use her studio whenever I'd like as it fits within her schedule. Sadly shes leaving Okinawa and moving to England soon so thats coming to an end! ): Before she left I wanted family pictures done, after rescheduling them twice there was finally a nice day to do them!
You can visit her website here if your interested in the rest of her work!

Giving Thanks A to Z

2011-11-24T22:02:00.002+09:00

Aaliyah {my 5 year old princess}
Baby DJ {my nephew}
Chocolate Chip Cookies and coffee
Dee {AKA my step dad} and DR Pepper
Emma {my niece}
Family
Grandparents
Having a home
Ice cream
Jay {the best husband in the world}
Kindness
Layne {my 1 year old crazy twin number 1}
Miley {my niece}
Nikon {AKA Charley- I <3 you!}
Okinawa Japan {living in such a unique and different place}
Photography and pink
Quiet time
Randomness
Sharla {AKA my mom}
Taton {my nephew}
Unconditional Love
Vacations
Wonderful {memories}
X's and O's {who does love hugs and kisses?!}
Yuki {my kitty}
Zane {my 1 year old crazy twin number 2}

Fukushuen Chinese Gardens

2011-11-20T22:54:00.011+09:00

Today was another day I went to help Amanda with a photo shoot with a family of 5 at the Fukushuen Chinese Gardens in Naha! I haven't been to the gardens yet... I've wanted to! So I was pretty much excited! Not only that I was by myself (aside from Amanda) which meant NO kids and NO husband! It was a very nice 6 hours! :D However, I didn't know we would be gone that long so Jay was not too happy when I got home... although he never called to bug or ask when I was going to be home so that was real nice! Here are a few photos I took while there... We will go back sometime since I'm positive Jay hasn't been and the kids defiantly haven't been. It was very pretty and very relaxing! (and FREE!)

2 Year Okinawa Japan Anniversary

2011-11-16T23:14:00.054+09:00

Today is Aaliyah and I's 2 year anniversary since arriving in Okinawa, Japan. Aaliyah had the opportunity to leave the island in April this year but not me ): That means I have survived 2 whole years without walking into a Target, Outback Steakhouse, a real mall, Island Rumbi Grill, and many more places. I am sure many people especially my parents would have thought that would have been impossible for me to do. Well, when your forced it happens. Never in my life would I have thought Id be shopping online as much as I do and visit the post office daily. But most of all its been 2 years since I have seen these people, the people that I have never been away from for extended periods of time. So much has changed in two years! I finished my associated degree and am almost finished with my bachelors. I gave birth to twins! Yes, I really do have twins; although since nobody has met them they probably think I borrow peoples kids for pictures! ;) Aaliyah has been in school for a year and half- she attended sure start last year and is now in kindergarten. She has grown up so much and is a little girl not a toddler anymore. It doesnt seem like everyone at home has changed much but they have and the only noticeable person is Miley! She was a tiny 2 month old baby when we left and is now a crazy active 2 year old dragging grandpa to the computer telling him she wants to talk to aunt Candace!! My littlest sister is graduating high school this year, and my other sister"lost" so to speak and my step sister gave me a new nephew 3 weeks before the twins were born. Im ready to come home to visit!!!

So take this warning there is a picture over load!!

Step Brother Denver, about to deploy soon

Aunt Carol and Uncle Chet, Uncle Chet has since passed away ):

Grandpa Jones and Miley

My mom, grandma, and favorite aunt Ladena

Grandpa added to the mix!

Grandpa Bert- had a terrible motorcycle accident a few months after we left. Thankfully he survived and only had a few broken bones.

Grandma Janie- has since taken in 3 great grandkids

Step sister Jen, niece Emma and Nephew Tate- since added a new nephew baby DJ who is a year old

Aaliyah and Grace- she is now a tall 4 year old and has beautiful long blonde hair!!

Aaliyah, Grace and Summer

Uncle Arlin and his grandkids

Friend Chasidy sinced moved to Texas and we dont talk much ):

All of us! Cambree- graduating high school, Corbin, Cearsti, and Me

Summer now in kindergarten

Tyler and Melissa, adding a new addition to the family soon, the baby Skyler is now a toddler!

Jared Ann and Katana who is all grown up and in high school!

Cousin Jene, now has a boyfriend! and very much happy!

Aaliyah hanging upside down!

My first Pinterest craft!

2011-11-09T12:43:00.000+09:00

I pinned a cute thing for the house the other day.. and realized I had all the stuff at home to make it! :D

It took me seriously 10 minutes!! Yeah!!

The hubby doesn't know it yet.. since he's at work but he will be writing things on it too!

Halloween!!

2011-10-31T23:06:00.038+09:00

This year the boys were able to participate in Halloween! Last year they were little 2 month old babies all snuggled in their car seat while big sister dressed up and trick or treated! We went with Jenn and her kids as well as Lisa and her kids and Jesica and her family! :D They all had so much fun!! The boys were really good even though they just sat there the whole time! haha

Mommy and Zane

Mommy and Aaliyah

Mommy and Layne

Zane as a spider!

Layne as a frog!

Aaliyah as Alice

All of us before trick or treating

All the kids... Parker, Caden, Abby, Aaliyah and Emma

All the babies... Layne, Zane, Gavin

Aaliyah getting her first "treat" of the night!

The boys getting their first "treat" ever!!

Okinawan Sunsets

2011-10-29T21:48:00.002+09:00

Its ok, you can be jealous! :D

I have the best opportunities to assist a photographer I admire- when she needs help with her off camera flash or reflector!

All the while she teaches me awesome things!

Some times its just me going with trial and error.

But Im learning! Im getting better!

Most of all, I have taken some great photos lately that I'm absolutely proud of!!

Naha Tug of War

2011-10-09T23:46:00.016+09:00

"The rope contest is a battle between residents of the east and west sides of Naha for bragging rights and a chance at good luck.

The tug-of-war dates back to the early 1600s under the Sho dynasty in the Kingdom of the Ryukyus. The rope, made of rice straw, is about 600 feet long, has a diameter of about 4 1/2 feet, and weighs 43 tons. As many as 15,000 people take part in the big pull.
Legend has it that should east side residents tug the hardest, they will find good health and happiness. If the west side wins, they’ll receive a good harvest and prosperity."

This year we went to the Naha Tug of War, since I thought it might be the last chance we had to experience it... turns out we will be here another year... at least until 2013. So, we could go back again next year but I doubt it! It was fun, it was different, and there was so. many. people. there! They tugged on the rope for 30 freaking minutes... which ended in a tie. Go figure! The rope was huge! The pictures really do not show it justice. It was at least 3-4 feet high, 2-3 feet wide and FOREVER long!

After the war was over, the outer layer of the rope is cut by everyone so that they all can take home a piece to bring good luck and fortune to the individual and their family. We have several pieces! :D Or at least a piece for all 5 of us! We then walked about 30 minutes to the festival AKA tons of food booths, kiddie games, beer, and walking around. (Ill do a separate post just to show case the food... it was soooo yummy, and different than what you will see in America for sure!)

Release of balloons to start the war

The "fake" emperor representing one of the sides

Part of the rope being handed off to pull on

A view of SOME of the many people there!

Center of the rope with the east and west persons directed whom to pull when

Funny shoes!

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The center of the rope linking the two ends together

about 1/3 of the rope

My Little Paradise

2011-10-06T17:47:00.001+09:00

Isn't it relaxing.... :D

Ryukyu Mura

2011-10-01T10:01:00.001+09:00

Last week I meet up with some new friends! :D And we went to explore the Ryukyu Mura which is a old traditional Japanese/ Okinawan village. There was much more to see and do there that we did. We were mainly there to take pictures! I will go back some other time... 1) when its not so hot outside 2) when Jay and Aaliyah are with me and 3) when I have more yen to spend!

A pretty little walking bridge over a nasty carp filled pond!

This is a Japanese prayer house, people write a prayer or quote or something wise on a piece of paper they get from a near by cart (I think you pay for it) and when your done you tie it on the wood/straw/stringy roof top.

I want to squish those water droplets and I'm not sure why!

This guy is "exercising" or "showing off" the water buffalo... I am a bad info getter and did not read the sign as to what the water buffalo does.

Favorite Shisha #1

Favorite Shisha #2

I am actually pretty proud of this picture... it looks so "old fashioned"

And, the boys got to meet the water buffalo! They didn't mind it too much unless he moved his head closure to them, then they freaked a little but no screaming so that's a winner in my book!

Blog Makeover!! :D

2011-09-26T13:03:00.000+09:00

As you can see I had my blog designed! :D

I'm totally excited about it!!

If only I had half as much talent as Brea over at

UtterlyChaoticDesigns

I would have dont it myself....

but I dont so she did!!!

Go check her out, and if you want one let her know I sent you!!

Layne and Zanes 1st Birthday

2011-09-25T12:54:00.003+09:00

Since I am well enough over being extra childish about the boys so called party... I will now be nice and let everyone see the pictures. Yep, I was being pathetic and selfish and childish but its whatever now... so I guess enjoy! :D

The lovely Thing1 and Thing2 Cupcakes

I made those cakes! :D

I didnt realize as soon as I set the cakes down they would immediately go for them!

Layne is like his sister.... just poked at it.

...And, Zane is not... he was really excited!

And thats the messiest Layne got

However, Zane did this!

He is now eye balling his brothers hardly touched cake

Zane didnt really care much for it!

All in all it was a good party, even before, during, and after my childish crying fit over everything. The boys wont remember, and when they see these pictures it wont really matter cause they are in them! :D They will likely have another "Thing1 and Thing2" themed party in the future... its cute, I have left over supplies and it just might be a little more fun when they are older! You can bet your ass Ill be buying Thing1 and Thing2 shirts in almost every size until I die! :D

Pity Party at My House

2011-09-19T21:10:00.003+09:00

I have not been in the best mood for the last two days. I'm mad. I'm angry. I'm sad. I'm happy. I'm irritated. .... I could list every emotion really....and I don't see me getting over it anytime soon. And I'm being overly childish- yes I recognize that BUT that does not demean the whole reason for my roller coaster of emotions. So leave me be and DO understand I KNOW I am being like that.... {which normally isn't how I react to things.. and that I am blaming solely on being in Japan}

The boys are one year old now! Yippee.. {the happy part} Well, their birthday was on September 10th but due to Zane having an ear infection we changed their party to September 17th. I'm too upset to even talk about the so called party or even look at the pictures so that will be a later post.

I just owe a few things to family for the time being... and that being that they DID NOT miss out on a whole lot. I really wish all family could have been here for their party.... because then it actually would have been a party.

Lets just say I worked my ass off and spent a pretty penny or two to end up with this:

The cute cakes, cupcakes, and fish bowl cups I made... In the garbage.

Unopened party supplies... since nobody was here to use them.

The cute cat in the hat jello cups I made.. Yes they are still in the fridge.. I'm still eating them.

I thought they were cute!

Not my idea of a first birthday party that is for sure.
Yes, a few people showed up... however, they left before the party even started.
Nobody saw the boys dig into their cakes.
Nobody seen them open their presents {which ended up being the entire next day}.
I tried my best to focus on them.. it was their party and it didn't matter who was there to them as long as Mom, dad, and sissy where.
But, I was upset... {I am still upset.} I went to bed crying.
I could careless for the gifts... if that's what people are thinking. I just wanted them to share their day with everyone and that didn't happen.
And, the thing I feel the most sad about is that there were so many ~~people~~ {family} willing and dying to be here and couldn't. All because of the stupid pacific ocean and the ridiculous air line prices.

My Poor Mom!

2011-09-06T13:28:00.001+09:00

This year is the 2011-2012 school year.

What that means for my poor mom:

Her first baby (that's me!) is in her last 9 months of her Bachelors degree!!

An expected graduation date of June 25, 2012!!

Ya see that!! EEeeekk it's pretty exciting!

(I just finished a class today so it hasn't updated yet)

And then.....

Her baby baby... Cambree (my little sister) is in her SENIOR year of high school!!

Ahhhhh!!!!

And finally... her first grandbaby.... (my baby) Aaliyah started Kindergarten today!!

Aaliyah was soooo excited!! :D

Well, thats just poopy

2011-09-05T12:13:00.002+09:00

The 20 pound little man whom I call handsome a million times a day did something not so handsomely-like. Ugh, it pains me to say it... but really this kid puts EVERYTHING in his sweet little mouth... so really I shouldn't have thought it would NEVER happen.

My Zane, my handsome, wiggly little man put CAT POOP in his mouth!! He started chomping away like it was the most delicious thing on the planet! {Ewe, yea I'm gagging over here. Are you? yuck!}

At first, I had no idea what was in his mouth I just went into mom mode and shoved my finger in his mouth to pull whatever it was out.... that's when I smelled it.... that's when I gagged... that's when I screamed. It was mushy, it covered the entire length of my index finger. It was NASTY!

I washed his mouth out, washed his hand, and hoped he would puke to make me feel better. He never did puke. Although I honestly didn't think he swallowed any... I still of course watch him until he went to bed.

And then.... there was a good morning to a whinny, stuffy nosed Zane. ): I figured it was just his teeth since he has two more bottom ones coming in. I gave him Tylenol and put him down for a nap. Then came the fever that wouldn't go away. And then, the green slimy snot came running out of his nose. EWE!

I called the ER and they said if his fever doesn't come down to bring him in... so I did. It was not that fun explaining to 5 different people you kid ate cat poop... I honestly watch my kids... he didn't get into the cat box since 1 of the 3 lovely cats in our home happened to have it stuck on their butt somehow and it happened to fall off near the kitchen where Zane happened to escape from his cage and ate it.

So 3 hours later Zane had a ear infection, COMPLETELY unrelated to the cat poop. However, cat poop consumption will be forever listed on his medical history. Poor boy.

(p.s. there are no photos and the reason should be obvious!)

I'm a big girl now

2011-08-23T14:38:00.000+09:00

There's a (plastic) glass of wine in my hand and its 2pm on a Tuesday. Don't judge me.

I am a stay at home mom of 3 monsters ( two of which decided they wanted to come at the same time) living in Japan. Oh what the life, right!?

I am also a full time student. - And that is where everything else doesn't matter.

See, when you are a student you must have all the time in the world dedicated to doing your work and interacting with you classmates. My school has "teams" within the 5 week long classes. Each class has 18-30 students but we are split into 4-5 person teams and required to do team assignments as well as our own individual assignments.

According to my team mates I have all the time in the world to spend online in the classroom all because I am a stay at home mom. This also means that when we have team assignments to do it automatically turns into "Candace's assignments" all because they feel they do not need to contribute because they have jobs. What about me- don't I have a 24/7 job? I guess not.

I'm sorry but that's where I want to know why they are even enrolled in school in the first place. Did they think they could get a degree by other people doing their work. Cause that's not going to happen. And if they really want to know, I used to work two jobs and be a single mom while going to school. Take that. I don't want to hear how its impossible or there is not enough time in the day, because guess what... if you really want something then you will find time to do it. I'm tired of picking up other classmates slack and quite frankly if I'm not getting "their" degree out of it too then I'm not going to waste my time that I could spend with my family making up for their non-participation.

And, I told them all just that. It deserved a drink, so I got one.... At 2pm on a Tuesday!

This might come as a shock to some of you....

2011-08-15T19:45:00.000+09:00

...and the rest of you... well, your just too smart for your own good!

I AM NOT, AND WILL NOT BE HAVING ANY MORE BABIES!!!

Yes, I love me some babies but I am shut down for business. Before you jump to conclusions and then start guilt tripping me by saying "Dont you want another girl...." blah, blah, blah.

This baby making factory produces a product with a very rocky assembly line and then delivers the product before it is finished- which involves handing it over to another team to monitor the progress and growth before it can be put on its merry way to a lovely new home.

Also, I HAD TWINS! This means that should I become delirious and want another baby my odds of having another set has quadrupled... that's a 1 in 12 chance. I don't really feel like gambling that chance.

Reason number 3- I do not like driving a van... I loathe it... If I have one more kid I will forever be tied to a van or such vehicle with 3 rows of seating should my family ever want to travel in the same vehicle together.

Reason number 4- Kids are expensive.

Reason number 5- My heart is now full... a hubby... a little girl and two little boys. I'm happy.

(P.S. I could come up will a million more reasons but then you'd all say I'm selfish!)

Am I a Photographer? Not yet.

2011-08-01T09:59:00.000+09:00

I'm not going to lie, when I sat at my computer researching DSLR's I thought that as soon as I possessed one I would instantly become a photographer. Oh boy how I was sadly mistaken. Its been 11 months since I bought Charley (Nikon D90) and I now know about 50% of its controls and settings and I am 75% knowledgeable in its manual settings and 25% of the time I nail the photo on its head... the sixth or seventh time or so. I am learning, and boy is there SO MUCH to learn! I seriously had no idea how much actually went into photography. There's the camera settings- I must know how to use my camera in every. possible. way, then there is staging a photo, using reflectors, additional lenses, speed lights, then there is the type of photos such as long exposure, bokeh, sun flare, waterfalls, etc Its a lot to take in and so many different things to learn and remember. And then, there's Photoshop,... ugh.... Photoshop. I have a love/hate relationship with Photoshop, the possibilities are endless!! But, learning how to correctly post process and enhance photos is the tricky part. This list could seriously keep going but for all our sanity Ill stop.

I am not where I'd like to be, but I am content with where I am at. Once I picked up that camera, paid for it, and road all the way home with it in my lap (with a big grin on my face) I walked into an endless hallway of learning. And, I HATE LEARNING! So far I think I'm on the right track but it doesn't matter what I think, it really is other people. Its just like having kids- your always going to think yours is the best looking kid in the world but, others do not think so. I think I want what other people are afraid to hear- I want cold heart-ed criticism and thoughts. I want what someone would say under their breath but never to my face. Because, for me, that is how I will learn! I do not know whats wrong, a different way to stage, etc if I do not know. Tell me what sucks, what would look better, what you would have done differently. And, remind me I NEED patients and that I CANNOT make up for it in Photoshop cause its IMPOSSIBLE! (I tried it).

First Sleep Over!

2011-07-30T11:00:00.015+09:00

Tonight, Layne and Zane will have their very first sleep over! Lisa and Kenny are some pretty brave soles! Our anniversary was on the 29th and since last year was our first and I was laid up in the hospital drugged up and having my preterm labor stopped- this year we wanted to actually celebrate (kid free)!

Aaliyah had her first sleep over with my step sister when she was 2 months old and her essentials were:
-bouncy chair
-bottles
-formula and burp rags
-diapers and wipes
-blankets
-clothes/pj's

For the boys being almost 11 months old and very much mobile their essentails are:
-2 bouncy chairs
-2 car seats
-double stroller
-octagon baby gate AKA the cage
-bottles
-formula and burp rags
-baby food and spoons
-baby snacks
-clothes/pj's
-blankets
-diapers and wipes
-1 playpen (Lisa had another one they used as well)
-binkies
-toys

Well, have fun and I'm going to enjoy my 24 hours without any kids!! (:

P.S. I hope we remain friends after this and Kenny doesnt hate me for too long!

July's Adventures

2011-07-29T06:13:00.001+09:00

Today was our anniversary! 2 whole years!! EEEkkkk. :D

Jay took the day off work so we went out on some family adventures!

First we went to the Japanese Navel Underground Headquarters.... I'm only posting one picture because someone {and I mean me} turned the auto focus off on the camera so all pictures are very blurry!!

Since I always want to do stuff that involves carrying the boys when its a million degrees outside and we were now soaking with sweat.... we went to the beach! :D

Layne and Zane have never been in the water aside from bath time.

Their first experience got to be the EAST CHINA SEA!!

L to R: Layne- Zane- Aaliyah

Daddy and the boys

Drying off and getting a tan...

Aaliyah wanted them to play in the sand too.. {um no...ewe}


Zane wanted Laynes towel too.

Zane freaked out in the water, it was a little too cold but after a few minutes he loved it and was splashing everywhere! They didnt stay in the water too long, like 30 minutes maybe..

they were VERY tired! {and I was hungry!}

The Finger

2011-07-23T20:56:00.000+09:00

I have a finger, well I have ten fingers, BUT I have the "mom" finger. Ya know the one that comes pointing and shaking at the kid(s) that are in trouble followed by a slight lean forward and the left hand on the left hip while yelling "....if you dont stop your going to go to your room!..."

Yeah, I have that finger. I find myself doing it without even knowing it but rather when I think about it later, I say to myself "Did that seriously happen!? Man I'm just like my mom!" My mom had that finger too. And everyday I figure out one more thing I have or do just like my mom- today added like #99 to the list!

Rockin' the baby

2011-07-13T20:40:00.001+09:00

Aaliyah 2 weeks old

Aaliyah 2 years old

Aaliyah 5 years old


Layne & Zane a few days old

Layne & Zane a month old

Layne 9 month old

Zane 9 months old

Rockin' the bump...

2011-06-14T20:57:00.003+09:00

This seems like fun... to show off how freakishly inhuman I am while carrying twins!

Trust me, I really am pregnant with twins, I watched them come out!

20 Weeks

24 Weeks

32 1/2 Weeks - We finally announced the names!!

My favorite!

I had these photos done at 32 1/2 weeks and then the lovely photographer invited us over for dinner when I was 34 weeks and 1 day. She had no idea she made labor inducing food because that night after crawling in bed and tossing and turning to horrible pain that just wouldn't go away... I ended up at the hospital at 2 am dilated to a 9 and ready to go!

The boys were born at 34 weeks and 2 days.

Layne weighed in at 4lbs 1oz and 17in and Zane 4lbs 7oz and 17 3/4in

They had a brief stay in the NICU of 20 days!

The boys a couple days old.


The boys today... 9 months old!

I am participating in this link today!

Questions and Comments Answered

2011-06-06T21:56:00.001+09:00

I'd ask what this looks like to you, however unless you are a mom to multiples 99.9% of the time your going to ask some stupidly obvious question like:

"Are they twins!?"

Or what you think when you see me; a 5'3" 110lb girl carrying both of these babies... yes I can carry both of them at the same time... two 17-18 lb baby boys in car-seats. Its not easy or fun but I can do it.

I have to do it.

So you dont have to imagine what you'd say, I'll tell you want I have heard, been asked, and simply muttered under their breath in snobby little tones. And them Ill answer them for you!

Please dont mind, but I am going to enjoy this QUITE a bit! (:

-Are they twins?

Sarcastic answers: Nope, they are triplets... oh shit I forgot one somewhere!

Hmmm, I dont know what do you think!?

:::I'm staring in amazement of their stupidity of a very obvious question:::

Correct answer: Yes

-Are they boy and girl?

Sarcastic answer: You have got to be kidding me right!?

Correct answer: No, both boys.

-How do you do it?

Well there's not much "to do" you just be a mom, exactly what you would do if you have your first baby. Learn all their needs and cries and tend to them.

-I can hardly handle one I dont know what Id do with two!

Well, twins or triplets or any other multiple are not one in the same,

each baby has their own and individual personality!

For example: one of mine is on the go, into things, quiet, and a huge flirt.

The other one is shy, an observer, a screamer, and a cuddlier.

-Ugh I could never do it!

Well, guess what... you would if you were given twins!

Its not like I asked for it or prayed to whomever to give me twins, I just got them.

You get over it and move on.

-I would cry!

And, you dont think I didnt!! Really, are you sure your the only person that would cry if you were told you were going to have twins!?!? Cause news flash.... your not!!!!

I cried for weeks not knowing how I was going to handle it, knowing I would have preterm labor issues, and that I was half way around the world without ANY of my family to help! (Especially my mom).

-WOW! You've got your hands full! (As I am carrying both babies struggling to open a door)
Obviously! Now do you want to shut up and lend a hand maybe!?
Cause that would be nice.

-Are they twins? Does your husband drink?... If not, he better start!
The only answer I could come up with: Really!?.... Thanks. F.U. too!

If someone isn't commenting or busy asking stupid questions they are gasping at the sight of my kids, commenting on my "extra long" stroller and out right just staring at me as if I am a circus freak-show side act.
Currently I live on Okinawa, a little island that is apart of Japan. This island is Infested with twins! So here it just amazes me that these people act like the sight of twins is such a rarity that we should be displayed in a museum. Now if we were in the states I would be a little more understanding since twins are a little harder to come by. But when 10k military affiliates are on ONE island and have the choice between 4 BX/PX and 4 Commissaries the chances of seeing twins is like 100% every hour! Not kidding I see them all the time and they are the only ones that truly understand what its like and don't ask dumb questions!!

It is a very unique experience and cannot be compared AT ALL to having two kids really close in age (and if you say that to me I just might slap you!)

Lily Festival

2011-04-25T18:05:00.021+09:00

Today Lisa and I packed up a toddler and two infants... ugh yes we are insane! To take a ferry ride to IE Island Okinawa, Japan to go to the Lily Festival! We had tons of fun, took some great pictures but will never return with little kids again! Not only is it hard with a baby but when you add twins to the equation its not only 2x as hard its more like 5x as hard. Not too mention poor pregnant Lisa and the heat which carries awful humidity here!

If seeds really grew anything...

2011-04-02T17:51:00.006+09:00

Today Aaliyah sat eating a Burger King hamburger, the ones with sesame seeds on the buns.
She paused with a mouth full and said:

"Mom, if you plant these seeds hamburgers will grow!"

What a sweet naive little girl Ive got! To her defense she had been learning about seeds, plants, soil, and flowers for the past week so it only made sense that she connected it all together!

I wonder what would happen if we planted pennies!! hehe wishful thinking... (:

Aaliyahs 5th Birthday!

2011-03-19T21:36:00.001+09:00

This year was Aaliyahs second birthday away from family but it was her first birthday with friends!! Since she started school in the sure start program (preschool) she made LOTS of friends whom she invited (but didnt all show up...)

The bounce house... was a hit!

Aaliyah having fun with her friends!


They colored animal masks...


Abby coloring her mask


Aaliyah bouncing with her friends


...Now shes playing in the sand with Kenny and Emma


Birthday Girl!


The poor penguin doesnt know what he's in for...


Here comes the first swing...


A million swings later... literally!


...again POOR penguin!


In case you didnt know what a 10ft sub looked like....


Delicious cupcakes Lisa made!!


Aren't they pretty!?


Happy Birthday Baby Girl! I cant believe your 5 already!!

Writing Prompt by MamaKat

2011-02-08T17:52:00.001+09:00

Writing Prompt: A poem to your special Valentine.

This poem was written to my husband back when he was my boyfriend and stationed in Turkey during the little 'break up' that we had.

The Globe

I looked at a map today,
and finally grasped the distance my heart didn't know existed.
With a finger on each side of the globe,
I realized just how crazy I had to be.
It was easy counting nine hours ahead each time I looked at the clock.
And much easier to push speed dial number two and anticipate the much needed sound of your voice.
But as each day passed the loneliness set in and the craving for a touch became stronger.
I was fixed on this idea that you'd come back to me, that this was only a temporary thing.
Nothing else seemed to matter because you loved me too.
I laughed when all I wanted to do was cry.
I must have been completely out of my mind;
with a finger on each side of the globe my heart broke in two.
But still even now at the end of the day,
your still on my mind and I still Love you.

Grandmas Visit to Japan!

2010-10-14T19:47:00.002+09:00

Grandma had so much fun on her visit to Japan! This was her first time ever flying out of the country! We didnt do all that much because the boys are so brand new and it was very windy outside and I didn't want them to get sick! I just got them out of the hospital, I didn't want them to go back. But this is what we did go do....

Aaliyah getting piggy back rides from grandma!

Grandma cutting Aaliyahs hair.

Aaliyah being cute at the Cape Zampa Light House

Grandma with her cute grandkids!

Grandma and Layne

Grandma and Zane

Grandma and Aaliyah in front of the East China Sea

They are eating Aaliyahs favorite thing... ICE CREAM! YUM!

Aaliyah with her grandma in American Village

Toes in the sand! In the East China Sea!

Layne and Zane in their new toy grandma bought!

EEEPPPP! Grandma is in Japan!

2010-10-05T17:10:00.002+09:00

We haven't seen grandma in 11 months! She came to visit her new grandbabies and miss boogerpants! Aaliyah didnt care for pictures she would rather hang on grandma. Be back later when she leaves to tell about our adventures!! Right now Im going to go soak up my mom time since I only have 6 days left.

Little Baby Naps!

2010-10-04T17:08:00.002+09:00

Finally! Nap time, time to post pictures!

Zane

Layne

Zane, Dad, Layne

Zane

Layne

Zane, Dad, Layne

First Day Waking up at Home

2010-10-01T16:54:00.020+09:00

Babies first time sleeping in their own crib in their own stuff without having all sorts of wires and machines
hooked up to them!

They look so tiny in that huge thing! They came home weighing just under 5lbs! Zane of course is always bigger that Layne.

Aaliyah loves being a big sister and having her brothers home. She loves holding them and kissing them and hugging them. She just doesn't know how to leave them alone!! She is a very proud big sister and will tell everyone about her new brothers!

Here it is... the Castor family of 5 photo! YEAH!

.... still so far so good but yet its only been one day!

The Boys are Home!

2010-09-30T13:58:00.001+09:00

After spending 20 whole days in the NICU the boys are finally home!

The boys first nap at home.

Here's to whatever life is going to be like now!

The Castor family is now a party of 5!

Two weeks old and almost coming home!

2010-09-26T22:10:00.001+09:00

The boys were two weeks old on Friday! They have improved with their eating considerably where neither has feeding tubes and are taking their entire bottle at every feeding plus some! The are quite the oinkers, I can't pump enough to keep up with them. They should be coming home in the next 2-3 days, and I cant wait!

Aaliyah can't wait for them to come home either, she hasn't been able to see them for a week now cause she had a cough and then some shots. She is still enjoying school, but only wants to go every other day... the other days she just wants to sleep! She is getting very antsy and excited for grandma's visit to Japan! It's been almost a year since we have seen grandma, she will be here October 5th to meet her new grand-babies!

Layne - Left

Zane - Right

Zane - Left

Layne- Right

My sweet little snugglers!

Layne- Left

Zane - Right

Aaliyah's first day of school!

2010-09-21T17:44:00.001+09:00

September 16th was Aaliyah's first day of pre-school!

She was so excited that she popped right up at 7:30 AM when I woke her up.

She had all sorts of fun meeting new friends and playing on the play ground at school.

So much fun that come the next morning she didn't want to get up at all for school!

She cried and argued with me about not wanting to go.

Unfortunately for her she didn't have a choice in the matter and had to go anyway!

Then came the weekend and she didn't want to go visit her brothers because she wanted to go to school instead.

Go figure.

Layne & Zane

2010-09-21T17:38:00.002+09:00

It wasn't quite the month break I wanted from the hospital but at least it was a two week break.

On Thursday the 9th we picked up the new van then ate dinner at a friends house. After coming home and getting in bed by 11pm I was looking forward to a nice nights sleep! The boys had something else in mind because I woke up to some lite cramping at 1 am which continued and became worse each time. I'm going to leave out the 'TMI'... anyway after going to the bathroom I woke up Jay and told him we needed to leave for the hospital! After speeding through all of Japans red lights, and almost wrecking the new van we made it to the hospital a little before 2 am. Without questioning that I was in labor, the doctor checked to see how far I was dilated... much to my surprise I was almost a 9! I BEGGED for drugs, there was no way I was doing it without them. They allowed it and about 30 minutes later I was one happy camper! Aaliyah was picked up and I was checked again at 3 am and it was go time. They wheeled me to the OR and got things prepped then allowed Jay in the room.

On September 10th the first baby boy Layne was born at 3:32 AM 4lbs 1oz and 17 inches long. After waiting for the next baby boy to drop and my contractions to get stronger; Zane was born at 3:43 AM 4lbs 7oz 17 3/4 in. Since I had them at 34 weeks and 2 days they had to go to the NICU, which is where they are still. They had no issues, they are just there to gain weight and learn to suck to be able to drink their entire bottle at every feeding. They should be coming home within a week or so, which I cannot wait for... I hate driving to that hospital twice a day everyday!

Aaliyah couldn't be more of a proud sister! She loves her brothers very much and thinks they are just so cute! And Jay is one proud dad! He loves his boys! Since they are so small they scare the crap out of him but he isnt afraid to hold them, feed them or change their diapers. He does really really well!

Layne

Zane

Layne in front, Zane in the back

Layne on the left, Zane on the right

Zane on the left,Layne on the right

The boys are here!!

2010-09-19T07:23:00.001+09:00

Here is a peek for now, I'll be back later or as time permits to add more!! (:

I'm a day late and 2k dollars short

2010-08-25T19:51:00.005+09:00

How about a Vacation?

2010-08-01T18:15:00.000+09:00

So I have been cooped up in the hospital's 5th floor (labor and delivery/anti-partum ward) for the last 6 days. UGH. I know 6 days right. I came in with 2-3 minute apart contractions at 28 weeks. Oh joy. The last time this happened they were able to stop them and send me home after 5 hours, not this time. I started dilating and thus was not allowed to go home. I was admitted stuck with IV's and immediately given all sort of meds to stop everything from progressing. When I thought I was going to be able to go home after 4 days my cervix had to go and dilate again to a 3. So goals are set to keep me pregnant until 30 weeks (which is a little over a week away) then the next goal will be 32 weeks, and if that time comes and my cervix hasn't changed any or contractions coming back I might, just might be able to go home.

I'd have to say I wanted to go on vacation... but not this kind! Jay has been great though, taking Aaliyah and doing the shopping/cleaning/parenting etc. This all stressed us out really bad since we didn't know what he would do for work or a babysitter and stuff but I think we have it under control. Now if these babies will just be nice and my body cooperate it wont be so bad. One week down, three more to go.....

Happy late 4th of July!

2010-07-07T16:59:00.001+09:00

This was our first 4th of July in Okinawa! The base only did activities from 3-9pm to beat the heat I assume. We didn't get to the park until about 6:30, played some games ate some pizza and watched fireworks! My picture taking skills were slacking and only a few were taken (none of me either). Aaliyah decided to use this really dorky smile for some reason which really doesn't look that pretty so this is what I was left with.... Aaliyah and our friend Jamie on the left and Aaliyah with Jay on the right. (project made in photo-shop!)

Menu Planning

2010-07-05T22:52:00.035+09:00

I have been following the above website for a few months now and this is my first time posting my meal plan! I had to see how it worked for me before shared just how much I have domesticated myself as a housewife here in Japan! I plan for two weeks at a time because that is when paydays are, but I will post them weekly. I have noticed I have dropped my grocery bill considerably and actually have things in the house to cook instead of standing in the kitchen wondering what the hell I was going to make for dinner. I hate making the same things over and over which is why I never cooked in Utah! I have fun searching and trying new recipes, 99% of the time they are delicious and I will more than likely make again. I have decided to use www.ziplist.com to store my recipes and make my grocery lists now. Since this is my first post I do not have links handy to put with my meals so that will come on later posts! On to the menu...

Monday: Beef Enchiladas
Tuesday: Orange Pork Chops with Rice
Wednesday: Shake n' Bake Chicken Legs with Velveeta Mac n' Cheese
Thursday: Frozen Pizza
Friday: Pasta Pizza with Cottage Cheese
Saturday: Chicken n' Biscuits
Sunday: Chicken Enchiladas with Nachos

More menus can be seen by clicking the picture at the top!

This is Me... Today

2010-07-03T21:59:00.002+09:00

I did not take this photo... I googled it! I cant remember where it came from :/

One word: BITCHY, why? I do not know. Anything and everything that has come out of my mouth is snippy, bitchy, and plain rude. Good thing the day is almost over, the husband can't wait I'm sure.

Is anyone out there?

2010-07-02T22:02:00.002+09:00

I swear I just like the idea of blogging or having a blog because I never 'actually' blog. To my defense though I do get great ideas on most days but then I forget my camera or miss the story telling picture. Blogs are just boring sometimes when no pictures are involved. Then again I don't think I have an audience or much of one, and I want an audience ): That seems very attention whoreish but I'm sure in this case its ok, its the reason anyone has a blog right?!

.... I am now 24 weeks and 2 days with only 12 more weeks to go! Twins are considered full term at 36 weeks, yahoo! Mine and my doctors goal is to at least get past 33 weeks which was when I delivered Aaliyah, but he would be happier with me going closer to 36 weeks. I am all for keeping them in me longer rather than them going to the NICU because that is an unpleasant experience even though it was just for 2 weeks. I do have one request though (uhmm boys... listen up!) They MUST be head down when its go time, because I am not, I repeat AM NOT having a C-section. I'm sorry but I have had 3 surgeries before and a couple 1 inch incisions hurt like hell I am not about to find out what a 5 inch or so incision is going to feel like!

I want a redo of today

2010-06-23T18:32:00.000+09:00

Should I even bother listing all the shit that went wrong today or pissed me off? I'm going to go with no, it might be utterly boring. Just know that is it quite long and my very favorite part was telling Aaliyah at least 25 times (no joke) to clean her room. She endured numerous spankings and threats to have her toys thrown away. Since when does that threat not work? She offered to go upstairs and get me her toys to put in the trash.

Needless to say I am one unhappy and irritated pregnant girl, what a great combo right? Not by a long shot.

On a better note, the boys are doing good, they weigh a pound each and are very active as they have installed a unauthorized jungle gym in my uterus. Oh joy!

More Photoshop

2010-06-11T23:16:00.001+09:00

This learning photoshop thing has become a project a day thing! I really am enjoying it and the possibilities of creating all sorts of awesome images and collages! Here are the last few projects!

Photography and Photoshop

2010-06-07T22:41:00.003+09:00

I have always loved photography and have always wanted to create beautiful pictures by just taking them and editing them too. Well I finally downloaded a trial of photoshop and not knowing what I was doing created these from pictures I took when I first arrived on Okinawa:

I was so excited I could hardly contain myself! I spent the next few hours (really spent days) playing with photoshop, I have even picked out a new toy to buy (awesome DSLR camera) and looking into classes and training in both Digital Photography and Photoshop! I am SO excited to finally be able to pursue this hobby and passion!!

Because I procrastinate like crazy...

2010-06-01T22:23:00.001+09:00

We have learned that the twins are BOYS! Jay is happy, more than you will ever know. And he has this crazy thought that he gets name both of them himself. I have given suggestions and they have all been turned down.. Its not fair! Aaliyah was a little disappointed that she wasnt getting a brother and a sister but is still happy none the less with getting two brothers.

This is both of them, each round thing is their heads.

Jay says it looks like they are playing beer pong!

Baby A

Baby B

Yet Another SURPRISE!

2010-03-27T19:09:00.002+09:00

I waited patiently to get my first ultrasound not knowing when it will happen.

The military overseas procedures seemed to be completely different than being civilian in the states and that was made apparent when I called the clinic to make my first appointment after having a positive home pregnancy test. I thought I would get that appointment pretty soon and have a ultrasound. Nope I was wrong, they sent me straight to the lap for blood work to confirm the pregnancy, once it came back positive (telling me I was about 6 weeks) they sent me in again for a number of other blood tests so I finally asked "When will I see a doctor?" A response I didn't care much to hear was "Not till your ten to twelve weeks." I was then handed a paper and told to call the Navel Hospital to schedule a para-natal class! WHAT! WHY? I have a child already. I had to go to that in order to start my chart and schedule my first appointment and have a ultrasound then. FINALLY.

So Wednesday March 24th comes. 10 weeks pregnant. YEAH! The hubby couldn't come with me because they were in the middle of a exercise, he didn't mind too much when I told him we wont find out the sex of the baby yet that will be in about 10 more weeks. Now the fun part. The Midwife sets up the machine and starts to look for the baby. She looks at me and says "Well I have some good news or bad news..." I honestly had no idea what to think, I couldn't even form any thoughts as she turns the screen and says "There's twins!" WHAT ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!?! I told her to check again and started crying. Sure enough they are twins, there are two little stinkers inside me! (Obviously I was in shock that is why this post is a couple days later!)

The call I had to make to the husband to tell him scared me! I told him he better be sitting down, of course he asked why and I said because we are having twins then all I hear is "Holy Shit!" His work phone rang so he had to go and that was the end of that conversation. It wasn't until he was home from work a few hours later that he got to see the proof. He didn't see them and thought it was a joke so I had to explain the ultrasound picture.

Of course the ENTIRE family and all the friends are totally excited! They did not understand why we didn't sound happy which I will assure you that we ARE! It's like HELLO we just got the shock of a life time let it settle in a little first so we can get used to idea then our happiness will show a lot more!

EARTHQUAKE!

2010-02-27T12:25:00.000+09:00

This morning (Saturday Feb 27th 2010) at 5:34 am I woke up to my bed shaking! Ah, WTF what is going on! All the sudden our cell phones started going off with the earthquake warning alarm! A freaking earthquake are you serious! Jay jumps out of bed with no clothes on runs upstairs and grabs Aaliyah and went to the stairwell. Now I'm wide awake and my heart is beating literally out of my chest! Aaliyah is wondering what the hell is going on and why a couple of her toys fell.

It was a freaking 7.3 magnitude earthquake! First earthquake we've ever experienced and I would have to say I am definitely NOT a fan! It was about 65 miles south east from our house in the middle of the ocean.

http://beforeitsnews.com/story/20556/Major_Okinawa_Japan_Earthquake_Today_Tsunami_Warning_In_Effect_7.3_Magnitude_Earthquake.html

Here is a link to a video of the eartquake!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hfbprlCgpGw

Surprise!!

2010-02-24T14:10:00.001+09:00

Yes you see that correctly, that is a positive pregnancy test. (not the one I took but similar.) What a surprise yeah... completely not expected or planned.

Today puts me at 6 weeks with a due date of October 20th.

We are all rooting for a boy most defiantly.

So far everything is going great, no morning sickness just an increased appetite!

Watch out left side of the road.

2010-01-22T16:29:00.001+09:00

I can legally drive in Japan now. Today I finally took the test to receive my Japanese driver license from the base. I have driven a few times and a couple by myself but now I can do it without being terrified that a cop will stop me. This is a good thing though it is quickly turning into a bad idea. Now my husband thinks he can drink whenever he wants and I will always be his DD or if other people need a DD that I will assist. That's lovely, not what I signed up for that's for sure.

Cheers!

2010-01-19T15:44:00.001+09:00

I have been living vicariously through everyone elses blogs and finally decided to start my own. I have had a separate blog just for my poetry for quiet awhile, which I have not kept up on. Here is to something new to take up my time!

Just Another Day in Paradise

Happy New Year! 2012!!

Churaumi Aquarium

Santa Pictures!

Family Pictures!

Giving Thanks A to Z

Fukushuen Chinese Gardens

2 Year Okinawa Japan Anniversary

My first Pinterest craft!

Halloween!!

Okinawan Sunsets

Naha Tug of War

My Little Paradise

Ryukyu Mura

Blog Makeover!! :D

Layne and Zanes 1st Birthday

Pity Party at My House

My Poor Mom!

Well, thats just poopy

I'm a big girl now

This might come as a shock to some of you....

Am I a Photographer? Not yet.

First Sleep Over!

July's Adventures

The Finger

Rockin' the baby

Rockin' the bump...

Questions and Comments Answered

Lily Festival

If seeds really grew anything...

Aaliyahs 5th Birthday!

Writing Prompt by MamaKat

Grandmas Visit to Japan!

EEEPPPP! Grandma is in Japan!

Little Baby Naps!

First Day Waking up at Home

The Boys are Home!

Two weeks old and almost coming home!

Aaliyah's first day of school!

Layne & Zane

The boys are here!!

I'm a day late and 2k dollars short

How about a Vacation?

Happy *late* 4th of July!

Menu Planning

This is Me... Today

Is anyone out there?

I want a redo of today

More Photoshop

Photography and Photoshop

Because I procrastinate like crazy...

Yet Another SURPRISE!

EARTHQUAKE!

Surprise!!

Watch out left side of the road.

Cheers!

Happy late 4th of July!